As an adult, you should have a couple of advantages compared to when your mommy and daddy bossed you around, right? You should feel free, open and mature enough to make your own decisions and come to your own conclusion about your limitations.
Well, sadly, that is not the way of the world a lot of times. You have your hypocrites and your moral guardians- not to anyone’s surprise those two categories always seem to go together somehow- influencing society at large to point their finger at certain behaviour that they do not see fit for the family-friendly version of life they strive for.
If that is what you want, that is fine. But if that is not what you want, then that should be viewed upon as equally fine. Sex is still something that is more than a little bit taboo, and a little bit frightening as it includes a certain amount of you letting yourself go. Of losing that all important control, and that is also a contributing fact to way we need it so bad. That is why the CEO of some transnational corporation sometimes feel the need to be dressed up in diapers and letting a dominatrix treat him like a little baby.
We need to get some release from the structured control we manage our daily routines with. We need to let the animal side come out to play from time to time. And we need to stop feeling ashamed of our fantasies, and start treating it as the treasury of imaginations that it is.
The adult dating site allows people to do that. The no strings affair has already started as people sign up, freeing them of the shackles of society’s constructed view of what is to be considered “normal”. People come here looking for what they feel is being withheld from them everywhere else. The reasons why we put our sexual desires under such dire constraints are mostly founded in prejudice, fear and a misguided type of morality. Here, anything goes. Your wildest dreams can come to life, the dirtiest fantasies that you have kept locked up, deep below in your sub-conscious.
There is nothing to be ashamed of here. The adult site celebrates diversity and the lust for life that comes with embracing your sexual desires. To put it in plain words: everybody wants to get laid. Everybody needs it. And the mask we put on in order to function socially in an everyday environment, is not the only side of us there is, and the only thing that is truly dangerous is suppressing that side for too long.
We are pre-programmed into enjoying sex as an activity and yet we have gone to such extremes in trying to put a leash on our lust.